7 Things Every Husband Desires From His Wife… But Will Never Ask

Ways to Make a Man Feel Deeply Attached To You - Let him know you appreciate what he is doing

things every husband desires from his wife - Let him know you appreciate what he is doing

HOW AWESOME WOULD IT BE TO have your dream guy desire you and only you forever? To never fear that he will be attracted to other women while he is in a relationship with you…

While attracting his attention is one thing, getting him to develop a deep emotional attachment to you is another.

Why emotional attachment?

Emotional attachment is what will make a guy want to spend the rest of his life with you. It is what will make him go out of his way to make you happy.

Indeed, it is this attachment that will motivate your man to yearn to spend as much quality time with you as possible. It is because of emotional intimacy that your man will be blind to the miniskirts and push-up bras all around him, and come home to you every night.

It’s when he chooses you because he feels something he cannot get with anyone else. It’s on another level to physical attraction, commonalities or even compatibility. And it’s the level you want to be on to keep your dream guy coming back to you.

So how do you play at this level? Here are the 7 rungs to the emotional attachment ladder you need to climb to get there

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1. Believe that love can last forever

There is nothing as painful as losing your man to someone else. While statistics on the success of relationships are not encouraging, research shows that many couples are still deeply in love after decades together. Scientists say that love can last – much more than we give it credit for.

Indeed, research in neuroscience has proven that intense romantic love can last a lifetime. It is, therefore, possible to not only get into a great relationship with your dream man, but it is also possible to nurture a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship. The secret is in creating a deep emotional intimacy with him.

2. Change your mindset

Many women work hard to attract the men of their dreams, but deep down they do not believe that they can experience long-lasting relationships. Your mindset is critical to the success of your relationship.

Consider the following beliefs that some of us hamper:

  • A man will always look for something more outside the relationship.
  • It is not going to work out, men always leave.
  • A man will always feel attraction for other women. 80% of long-term relationships fail anyway.
  • One woman cannot meet all the needs of a man.

These kinds of negative thoughts will sabotage your relationship even before it has started. If you bring fear, doubt, and reservation to your relationship, you will never form a deep emotional attachment to your partner.

Your mindset will determine the fate of your relationship. To develop a deep attachment to your man, you have to come from a position of power and faith.

Here is an interesting fact:

As a woman, you are always influencing your partner. No matter what is happening around you, you can fulfill a man so much that he is so attracted to you that he does not notice any other woman. Haven’t you heard of men who have stuck to their wives like glue for life, completely in love?

You must have enough be confidence in yourself to believe that you can be enough for one man; forever. Once you have this confidence, you will attract commitment and devotion from your man.

You have no idea how much influence you have on your man when you dare to acknowledge that you already have it within you to be more than enough for your man for life.

3. Worship your man in the bedroom

To make a man feel deeply attracted to you, make him feel like your personal sex deity. Men love sex because it boosts their ego. For a man, sex is not just a physical activity.

Fact: A man who is in a serious relationship equates sex with love. It is his way of connecting with you. During sex, the bonding hormone: dopamine is released. During those intimate moments, oxytocin is also produced. Oxytocin is responsible for increasing a man’s attraction for you.

If you know your man well enough, you can keep these bonding chemicals flowing in his brain:

  • Discover your man’s sexual triggers and how to push his buttons to make him obsessed with you. Be open with your sexual affection.
  • Touch and caress your man lovingly and tenderly whenever an opportunity arises. This soothes him and invites him into an emotional connection.
  • Learn how to receive your man’s touch. Whenever your man touches you, relax into it like butter on a hot blade. Melt in his warmth.
  • Don’t be afraid to initiate sex. This excites your man and shows him that you want him as much as he wants you.

4. Become his haven

Through the passage of time, men have been elevated to close to perfection status: The ‘knight in shining armor syndrome.’ The man is expected to be strong, complete and whole in all the areas of his life. This has put tremendous pressure on many men. Many women attach a person to their man that he cannot possibly live up to.

The man has been denied the opportunity to have weaknesses, to cry, to fail, to be human. What unrealistic expectations many women have for their men! The truth is, like any other human being, your man needs a soft place to fall.

  • Offer him emotional and physical safety. Has he had a bad day? The moment he gets home, he should feel that he is walking into his haven. In your presence, he is not judged, and he feels protected from the world. Your emotional bond will never be broken.
  • Give him space to let his emotions out. The more your man can be himself around you, the more emotionally attached he will become.
  • Keep your man’s secrets. When he knows that he can come to you and share whatever is in his mind, you will become his confidant; his best friend. If he truly feels in his heart that he can trust you, he will never feel the need to stray away. He will genuinely let his guard down and become even more attached to you.

Teach your man that you have his back, that he can trust you like no other person on this planet. You will form an emotional bond that no one and nothing can break.

Rather than feel terribly disappointed when your man falls short, ask yourself, ‘how better you can support him?’

5. Build his adrenaline

Boredom can be a massive obstacle to emotional connection. You will form a stronger emotional bond if you keep things interesting. Research shows that couples who experience strong emotional attachment are those who enjoy participating in challenging and new activities.

In a relationship, you will sometimes get into those grey areas where nothing exciting is going on. Shaking things up now and then with something exciting is a good idea. When you get your man’s heart pumping, it tricks his brain into thinking that his excitement is arousal at being with you. This creates a deeper connection with you.

Remember: it is not how much time you spend together. It is how you spend the time that will increase your emotional attachment. And it does not have to be something elaborate. Seek out simple mentally challenging ways to break and spice up your daily routines.

6. Be supportive of his time alone

According to author Deborah Tannen, suffocating a man by denying him some free time is the fastest way to kill a relationship. A man needs breathing room in a relationship for his hobbies, his friends and to tail away on his projects so that he can feel fulfilled.

Dr. Rick Nauert says that giving a man space is especially important if he is under stress. He needs time to concentrate, reflect and figure out the next step.

  • If you can learn to sense when your man needs a break, all the better. Always set a time when your man will be back and make plans for later. You will always have more to talk about.
  • Smile when he says he is off to his man cave; give him a kiss. Your man will always feel seen, heard and treasured.

Finally,

7. Always make him feel like he is your hero

Men want to be needed. He wants to feel like he adds to your life something that you cannot get anywhere else.

Have your man do things for you. Even if you can open that jar by yourself, having him open it will make him feel great about himself and more connected to you. Your man needs you to need him in your life. Period.

Praise your guy for all his accomplishments. You need to be his number one fan. He will want to excel in everything including your relationship. The emotional intimacy will grow because he knows he will always get a pat on his back.

Express gratitude for all the things he does for you. He does not make an effort to make you happy for no reason. Do not just be grateful for the nice things that he does for you, but for all his sacrifices out there to make you happy.

Affirm your man: Let him know that you believe that he can do whatever he puts his mind to because of all the fantastic qualities that he possesses. Men have tender egos. A man needs frequent reassurance about himself: his attractiveness, his career path, and his efficacy as a partner. So let your praise loose.

Fact: The more your praise his positives, the more you will see them.

Remember, creating a deep connection with your man is all about engaging and connecting with him on ways that stimulate him.

Focus your attention on your man now and then and ask yourself how you can make him feel special. If you do this it will help you will effortlessly thrive in your relationship.

When he feels special, he will go out of his way to do things for you.

  • Do the small things around the house that only you would notice
  • Take more pride in the jobs he does around the house and do them better
  • Put more of his focus on you and what you want… in every room of the house

And all of this comes from really getting him and understanding how he thinks about things. Especially commitment and relationships.

This eye-opening video demonstrates the power of understanding him fully.

It is a real game-changer

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“Does My Husband Love Me?” – The 8 Point Checklist To Know If He Has Checked Out

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woman wondering does my husband love me while sitting on a bed

WHEN YOU LOOK AT HIM INSTEAD OF LOVE, you see a tired, impatient look in his eyes.

And all joy has drained from his life. He has not said anything, but you have started to feel less important than his work, his friends, and even his phone. Now you can hardly get him to spend any time with you. He always seems busy doing one thing or the other…

You try to win back his attention

And so you work even harder to attract his attention; to make him happy. You think that pleasing him will make things better, only to realize that your efforts only make him resentful.

You no longer feel validated, and affection has become a scarce commodity. And then it hits you; ‘Does my husband love me? or has he fallen out of love'

8 Signs that your husband does not love you anymore

Often, there are  signs that your husband no longer loves you. The problem is not inadequate signs but that wives do not want to see and accept them. It is not easy to admit that your husband has fallen out of love with you.

The following signs may be an indication that your husband is losing interest in you.

Before reading on, prepare to step back from your relationship for a moment and examine it from the perspective of an outsider. It can be helpful to use a pen and paper and write down a yes or a no in a column to keep score as independently as possible.

1. Sudden absence

One telling sign that your husband doesn't love you anymore is his absence. All of a sudden, he needs a lot of space. You get a distinct feeling that your husband is avoiding you. Experts say that men who fall out of love with their wives start coming home late and spending more time away.

He will give excuses such increased work at the office. He might also start going more to the gym. If you have consistently been spending weekends together, he will start making other plans.

Eventually, his excuses for his absence become more and more flimsy. One thing that is apparent is that it becomes harder and harder to connect with him. This is a clear indication that something is wrong.

2. Lack of interest

A sure sign that your husband may not love you anymore is that he has become less and less interested in the day to day happenings of your life:

  • He is no longer interested in knowing how your day was.
  • He does not inquire about your hobbies and interests anymore.
  • He might start making plans without involving you.
  • He no longer compliments you, and you don’t feel that he appreciates you or that he is attracted to you anymore.

Generally, if your husband is no longer engaged in your life, it is a bad sign.

3. He has started to disrespect you

Your once loving husband has started to treat you rudely. He makes negative comments and criticizes you all the time. He may start verbally or emotionally abusing you, and his behavior has become passive-aggressive. You will find yourself walking on eggshells around him.

He might start to compare you with other women or your relationship with other couples’, in a negative light. Suddenly, everything you do irritates him, even those little quirks that he once thought were cute.

When you husband starts hurting you intentionally, this a clear indicator that he has lost interest in you.

4. He no longer cares about your emotional and sexual needs

There are many reasons why your sexual life can slump. However, if there is a definite shift in the way he interacts with you physically, it could mean that he is no longer attracted to you. If it feels as though the passion is completely dead and he shows no interest in reviving it, he is probably falling out of love with you.

You will notice that he is not doing anything to reciprocate your efforts at intimacy. If you realize that your husband no longer focuses on your needs or even bothers to satisfy them, something is wrong in your relationship.

5. The way he handles conflict has changed

When a partner has fallen out of love, he handles disagreements differently than he used to. All couples have their individual style of conflict resolution. However, when a couple’s relationship is stable, they use a relatively consistent method to solve their conflicts.

However, when love starts to wane, so does the attention to conflict resolution. Is your husband:

  • Indifferent; altogether giving up on arguing? He instead placates you and goes ahead to do what he wants anyway?
  • Picking abrupt and confusing fights and then using them as an excuse to leave the scene?
  • Choosing to stay angry long after you argued?

If your husband no longer genuinely wants to settle your conflicts and fix your relationship, then something else is going on with him.

6. He discusses your relationship in a negative, hopeless manner

Men are problem solvers. If there is a problem, especially with the woman that they love they will do everything to solve it.

When he falls out of love, he will not take any responsibility for the situation. He will blame you for everything that is wrong with your marriage. His tone will also turn from one of genuine curiosity to one of resignation. You will hear things like ‘I am just not happy anymore’; ‘is this all worth it?’

If he has decided that there is no way of fixing your relationship, he is looking for a way out of the marriage.

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7. He has become obsessed with his phone or device

While he no longer communicates with you when you are a part, he will stay glued to his phone when you are together. This is a way of distracting himself from spending real time with you.

If he is flirting with someone else, he will never put his phone down in the fear that you will discover he is emotionally unfaithful (or even worse). If he no longer finds your presence stimulating, then he has probably lost all interest in you.

And the obvious one:

8. He stops telling you that he loves you

If your husband has shifted from saying ‘I love you’ to always just ‘me too,’ he is probably losing interest in you. If you observe this, stop saying ‘I love you’ for a few days and see what happens. If he also stops expressing his love, then clearly there is a problem.

We hope you have a much better picture of whether he loves you or not. This is a crucial moment in your relationship that will determine whether you will live happily ever after or he leaves you.

The future

If you have kept score, and indeed discovered that he is losing interest in you, do not panic. Wondering whether a husband loves you is one of the most common questions many wives ask during a rough patch in their marriage. You are not alone, and you know what, your marriage can rise from these ashes and blossom once again.

Many times, a marriage needs to hit rock bottom before it can be rebuilt and revived.

Thanks for reading my guide on ‘does my husband love me?' – the checklist to know if he has checked out. You can contact me here

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How to Write a Letter to Husband to Save Marriage – Or Edit this Example

Letter to husband to save marriage being written by wife

Letter to husband to save marriage being written by wife

CONFLICT IS INEVITABLE IN MARRIAGE…

And it can either lead to discovery or damage depending on how you handle it

When you effectively deal with conflict, you will discover new approaches, ideas, and solutions to make your marriage even more vibrant.

If you do not solve your conflicts promptly, the wounds fester and conflicts intensify

The place of effective communication in a marriage

Conflict is not the problem in marriage; how to deal with conflict is the issue. Effective communication, therefore, becomes a large part of a successful marriage.

Research shows that communication problems are a significant indicator of marriage breakdown. 65% of marriages end in divorce when couples struggle with communication.

Research by Dr. Kirsten Grarningen of University College London revealed that communication problems are the leading cause of divorce in Britain. The trick to staving off divorce lies in having a better relationship, which is helped by having a strong communication channel between you and your husband.

It is no wonder most advice on how to fix a marriage encourages couples to talk it out. But what do you do when your husband doesn't want to talk about your problems? Do you leave him alone and assume he will come to you when he is ready? Do you allow issues to go unresolved and expose your relationship to further strain?

First things first; why won’t your husband talk to you?

There are many reasons why your husband could go quiet on you in the face of conflict.

  • He does not feel safe. Is it possible that the way you respond to your husband when you discuss difficult subjects has made him dread discussing tough issues with you? Do you become defensive and argumentative whenever you discuss your relationship problems?
  • Your husband fears that you will not be considerate of his feelings. Do you always try to control the conversation with your husband? Do you tell him to get over his hurt already? Why should he talk to you about this critical issue when you will disregard his feelings like you have done every other time?
  • Your husband could be unsure about his feelings about the situation, and he wants to think them through before speaking to you.
  • Your husband could be worried about making a complicated issue even worse.

Important to note: you must recognize that an individual cannot not communicate. Even when your husband is not talking, he is communicating. The question is, what is he saying to you?

What to do when your husband won’t talk to you

Successful negotiation is a vital part of a healthy relationship. Your husband is avoiding negotiating with you by his silence. Unfortunately, issues will not solve themselves and they will not go away by being ignored. Your marriage needs serious attention right now.

To start the healing of your marriage, you must kick-start communication with your husband. Since verbal communication is temporarily on hold, what alternatives do you have?

Put it in writing

Sometimes an effective way to get your husband to open up is to use an unexpected method of communication. There are many practical advantages of putting your thoughts in writing:

  • A letter gives you more time to think about what exactly you want to convey.
  • It allows you to choose the right words for the message that you have in mind.
  • You can pour out your heart without having to worry about being interrupted or tripping over your words.
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It is unlikely you will be there while he reads the letter, although it can help to write the letter if you picture him reading it

How to make the most out of your letter

You are hoping to achieve a number of things with your letter: you want to get your husband back to the negotiation table. You are also hoping that writing the letter will be the start of the journey back to reconciliation with your husband. It is therefore important that you consider how your letter is going to be perceived.

  • Do not focus on yourself in the letter. The most important thing right now is to focus on the feelings of your husband but not your own. ‘My heart is breaking, and I don’t know what I will do if I lose you’… You can sprinkle the letter with a few of these phrases but watch out that the entire letter is not all about you.
  • Your husband is dissatisfied with your marriage as it is presently. For your letter to have an impact, it must clearly show how things will be different going forward.

Hint: Men crave physical intimacy. Your husband will respond even better to references for improving your physical relationship.

The letter

A carefully written letter can be the catalyst for reconciling your marriage as long as it is followed up with the right actions. We understand that writing letters (especially emotional ones) can be daunting. Feel free to look at the sample letter below and tweak it to suit your situation.

Example letter

Dear husband,

I will never forget the elegance I saw when I first set my eyes on you. I told you every day how handsome you are (often with some irritation). You were and still are everything I want in a man: you are ambitious, hardworking and honest. You are a man of integrity and honor.

I still remember when we first met: we enjoyed each other’s company and our days were filled with laughter. I felt loved and wanted. Your zest for life was infectious. I knew then that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with you. That has not changed, and it will never change.

The last ten years have been adventurous. We have been blessed with our children, we have set up a thriving business, and we have bought our home. But we have also tasted the bitter side of life: we have stared at bankruptcy and survived a horrible accident. Through it all, you have been my rock.

You are smart, talented and capable and when things are happening around us, no one makes me and our children feel as whole and safe as you do. I believe in you. I know I do not say this often. Forgive me for taking you for granted.

I admit that I am not as wise as you are and I have not been as patient as you. I know that I can be a mystery to you. You are pretty steady and consistent, and I am much less so. I am more emotional and sensitive than you to things that happen.

I know that I sometimes lash out at you when things do not go my way. I frustrate you a lot of times. I admit that the way I have handled our arguments in the past was not always very constructive. I have walked out in the middle of arguments and shut you out. I now realize how damaging my behavior has been to our relationship.

I regret the many things that I have said and done that have hurt your feelings. I am sorry for not being more attentive to you. Forgive me for all the times I disrespected you and made you feel anything less than the great man you are. Forgive me for putting our marriage in jeopardy.

I have reflected deeply, and I know where I have erred. I am now willing to begin the process of changing for the better. I plead for another chance to make things right. I will respect you and listen to you patiently. I will put your concerns into consideration. I will meet your needs to the best of my ability. Please help me to put our family back together.

I miss our late night conversations. I miss your cuddles and kisses. Please talk to me.

Love,

Me.

What happens next…

Writing a letter and putting it all out there like this can be daunting. It can feel like your giving him all the power in the relationship

But to save your marriage you must show him your vulnerable side

As for how and when he will respond, give him some time to get back to you.

It might take him a while for it all to sink in, but at the same time, don't let it drag on for months

And he may not ever address the topic of the letter with you verbally again. But you will know by his actions what kind of impact it has had on him

After the letter

Sitting down somewhere quiet with a pen and paper is the first step to removing those tense and negative feelings in your marriage

The next step is about re-building that intimate, strong connection you used to share

Because it wasn't long ago that you couldn't wait to see each other again. When every meeting had some physical element in it and you used to know exactly what he smelt like and he, you.

Bonding and connecting cannot be rushed. It must be done in order to maintain a strong relationship long term.

This is the true secret to those marriages where couples seem happy all the time. She knows how to make him feel like a better man when she is around.

And it isn't all about sex or giving him the space he says he wants (he doesn't really want it)

The good news is that you can start the process, even if you are the only one trying

And start looking forward to spending time together, going out and doing all those things you used to do as a couple

Instead of going home with a knot in the pit of your stomach while trying to put on a front for everyone else

You can start today to recreate the marriage you want

This short video begins to detail the process of how you can save your marriage

It might just be the most important video you watch for the sake of your marriage

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Language Of Desire Review – What’s Really In It and Is It Right For You & Your Relationship?

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Note: This is my review of the Language Of Desire program after getting a copy and reading/listening to it. Others may experience the program differently. I have used the program and my knowledge of other programs in writing this review.

IF YOU ARE READING THIS, IT’S LIKELY that your relationship isn’t exactly where you want it to be…

And the issue at the core is that your husband isn’t as open and honest with you as you’d like. Maybe you feel like he’s keeping things, or simply not telling you what he thinks, and you're tired of being kept ‘out of the loop’ and trying to put things together yourself.

I know as a man that it’s not that I don’t want to share, it’s that I feel like my wife doesn’t really want me to share. The good news is that how to overcome this problem, is in the program.

What is the Language Of Desire in one sentence?

An upfront and honest guide on how to build and strengthen your relationship with your man using intimacy.

The Language Of Desire (LOD)… in More Detail

At its core, LOD is a written and audio program designed to show you how to get your mans attention, keep it, and build a deeper relationship between the two of you.

The how is through sex.

The reason IS NOT that you have to ‘become a slut’ but actually because sex gets a mans attention… pretty much every time. It simply plain works. Your man doesn’t want you to become a slut. But he does want you to worship him among other factors. And due to the kids, the house, our careers and life in general, these factors get forgotten about or neglected in our relationships.

As well as the fact that we don’t really get taught how to build strong relationships, have great sex and increase our levels of intimacy with a partner… the only places that talk about these topics are movies, magazines, celebrity-based websites, and maybe friends…

But none of these are really great teachers.

Felicity Keith is the author of the Language Of Desire

Enter Felicity Keith

She had enough of what others were telling her because it wasn’t working. So she decided to figure it out for herself. And the Language Of Desire program is her manifesto/little-black-book. Her tell-all guide on what she found, and more importantly, how you can make a difference in your relationship with your man.

One of the best parts of this program is that it cuts the crap. (Which is why I was interested enough to get a copy and review it in the first place).

Simply put there are things that you can do to turn your intimacy around. And this book covers many of them.

It doesn’t cover everything. But if you're looking for something to do to get your intimacy back on the right track, or want something you can do pretty much straight away. This will give you those tools, techniques, and tips.

There’s also the reasons why covered in this program. Why a particular technique works, and what issue you are potentially solving with it. As well as how you can customize what you are doing to really get his attention.

For example, LOD reveals the tricks porn companies use to seduce men and keep them coming back for more. It also discloses exactly how women act in porn and exactly why it turns men on so much.

You will also learn why what you are currently doing is not working, and how your man sees it through his eyes. It’s a great eye opener as your actions may not convey what you are trying to tell him.

There is also a section in this program about how to get what you want. And how to supercharge your intimacy in your relationship, and bring him closer (the science behind that is in the program).

So without further adieu:

Note: If you want to go straight to the pros and cons and my verdict, then keep scrolling down in the review. The next section covers what you actually get in the program.

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Although there are packs and boxes shown here, the Language Of Desire is a digital download only.

What’s In Each Module In The Program

Module One: Introduction

Module Two: Become a Sexual Superwoman

  •     Learn to dump your fear over the “slut” label
  •     Determine your sexual boundaries
  •     Discover your growl-inducing Madonna Moan

Module Three: Loving Man’s Best Friend (hint: it’s not his dog)

  •     Understand the secrets of his sex drive
  •     Learn why his penis is so important to him
  •     Rethink pornography (this one is controversial!)
  •     Learn The Porn Destroyer

Module Four: Brain Chemistry and Sex

  •     Explore how desire and sex work with our primitive brain
  •     Using the potent Cuddle Hormone technique
  •     Have fun with Pavlov’s Erection technique
  •     Learn the power of Sexual Singularity

Module Five: Create an Erotic Action Movie

  •     Make him the star of your own sexy movie script
  •     Writing your script step by step
  •     Learn a variety of ways to share your movie with him

Module Six: Desire Intensifiers

  •     Masterfully crank up the sexual heat
  •     Make him pant with desire with the Tease Intensifier
  •     Learn a blow job to blow his mind with the Oral Intensifier
  •     Snap “him” to attention with Verbal Viagra

Module Seven: For the Single Ladies

  •     Use dirty talk effectively when dating
  •     Get him to commit with the Monogamous Male Maximizer
  •     How to go from Friend-Zone to Fantasy Girl

Module Eight: Getting Your Fantasies Met

  •     Planting desire seeds
  •     Have dirty fun with The Lust Mirror technique
  •     Practically read his mind using Erotic Telepathy
  •     Make him your hero with the Romance Rotator
  •     Explore your kinky side with 50 Shades of Experimenting

Module Nine: When “Sex” Isn’t Possible

  •     Getting around life’s sexual obstacle course
  •     Learn how to be dirty from a distance
  •     Use the No Touch Lay to keep things hot
  •     Learn about the Invisible Chastity Belt (it’s more fun than it sounds)

Module Ten: Master Class

  •     What if he’s a cold fish
  •     Overcome objections
  •     Fine-tune your technique
  •     Plan out your dirty deeds

Language Of Desire Bonus Content

Silent Seduction

Summary

This 12 page text guide is the body language accompaniment to the Language Of Desire program. The guide includes how to use your body to send signals straight to his subconscious brain, and how to amp up attraction and his attention when your out in a social group together. Caters for both single and those in a relationship.

My Opinion

Some good insights, some general knowledge, and plenty of techniques. This quick read is at the very least a good reminder of how to subtly get the message across and keep his attention squarely fixed on you.The techniques are kind of blunt so discretion is advised while practising them in public. Overall a good addition as there is something here for every woman.

Good Girl's Guide to Texting Dirty

Summary

This 15 page text guide includes 200 text messages to help you get over your creative block when it comes to getting things started with your man. The texts involve one liners, all the way through to intimate stories and private conversations over text. There are some introductory information here as well if your wondering which type of message you should pick.

My Opinion

A lot of templated text messages. This will help even the more subdued and shy get the message across. There are different types of messages including direct and indirect here, something for everyone. A great way for both of you to start the day.

Unstoppable Confidence with Michael Griswold

Summary

This 90 minute audio (with transcription) is an interview with the relationship coach Michael Griswold (interviewed by Michael Fiore.) It covers:

  • The one most desirable trait that men find in a woman (it isn’t what you think it is)
  • The two things (Michael G thinks) a woman needs to do to get a man to fall in love with her
  • The three types of women Michael sees when doing his relationship work

… Along with many other areas of interest

My opinion

This 90 minute conversation includes some new insights and different ways of looking at different relationship dynamics. It is quite casual (almost like a conversation) and a lot is covered. This isn’t going to suit everyone. The particular information along with how it is delivered isn’t for everyone, but it’s good to listen to get a difference in opinion.

It’s important to note that Michael G is covering information that is different from the main program, and this bonus doesn’t add to LOD, it gives a different perspective.

The Language Of Desire Program – What you will learn:

  • The powerful little secret that will make your man addicted to you and re-energize the intimacy in your marriage
  • How to protect your relationship and create a bond so strong other women won't be able to make your man stray
  • What you can do to get his erection on a string for you to control
  • The phrase you can use to start a open and honest conversation with him, if he’s always telling you what he's really thinking
  • What you can text to him right now that will have him thinking about you all day and very excited to see you when you get home
  • One thing men hate about relationships with particular women, and how you can avoid it
  • How you can get and keep his attention while he is engrossed in something else
  • How to build a portfolio of experiences he loves in your relationship that will bond you two forever
  • How to subtly change your relationship from more like roommates to lovers again
  • How to grow your connection and his confidence in your relationship
  • Why men hate nagging, how to identify it and a simple technique to fix it
  • Why your man might be sexually repressed and how you can help him get in touch with his inner stag – binding him to you forever
  • The 6 fantasy themes and how to identify how your man fantasies about sex when your not around
  • How to make your man become more attentive and romantic
  • Why your sex life isn’t what it used to be, and how to get it back on track
  • How you can turn a mundane situation, into an intimate one
  • How to keep him thinking about you, even when he’s hundreds of miles away
  • The best way to use your past intimate experiences, to create new future experiences
  • What to do when he doesn’t respond to your advances the way he used to
  • The vital elements of planning your intimate time with your man
  • And quite a bit more!

Felicity Keith is the author of the Language Of Desire

A Quick Note on ‘Who is Felicity Keith?’

The LanguageOfDesire.com says that Felicity Keith is a regular woman who, after a relationship shock has taken the time to learn about relationships, men and women and what they want.

Although I haven’t spoken to Felicity directly, she reads the audio version of the program. She also uses email to ‘check in’ after you get the program to see how you are doing and deliver a few more pointers.

PROS and CONS

PROS

Real

This program is Felicity’s experience. While going through the program, she will drop in stories or bits and pieces about her life which I think make the program more relatable.

It’s easy to tell from the program that she is quite experienced in this area, and has knowledge. Because of this, she breaks things down really well and makes them quite easys to understand and follow. She doesn’t hold back either, it’s quite a comprehensive program.

Plenty of done for you

There are tasks that you need to do in this  program, but as far as wanting to get started straight away there is plenty templates and done-for-you samples that you can use to get started.

You could literally be texting or telling him something you learned 20 minutes after getting your copy. As a man, these techniques would work on me. So you will be sure to get a rise out of him.

Plenty of exercises

They will take work. About 2 weeks i reckon

They will stretch your comfort zone in a good way. Even if you just work on one or two of them to begin with.

CONS

Audio

I like having the audio program to listen to in the car and when I can't read. But the quality is poor. It sounds like Felicity (who also reads the program) is on the other end of a phone line. Also the audio files aren’t ordered when you download it. So if you want to listen to the whole thing in order, you will need to organize it yourself before putting it in your car.

Layout

The program comes in a PDF. But there isn’t much logical flow, and i found myself getting confused at which point i was in the program. Especially at the start. Even when following the pdf i felt a little lost. The modules seem to be independent, which is good, but when first going through it i didn’t like it.

Explicit Content

This program is not for the easily offended or women who simply don’t want to go into depth about sex and changing how you look at your relationship in the bedroom.

The program centres itself around sex. The program delves into some of the rauncher aspects of life. This may be an issue for some readers. The program is quite explicit in it’s language. Felicity doesn’t hold back in what to say and do. Some of the ideas and techniques might also be a bit much for some.

Overall (My Opinion)

Felicity, is well versed and you can tell her experience when going through the program. She answers the most common questions in FAQ sections along the way. There is also a customer support email that you can use to ask any questions you might have. Felicity talks about comments, although i cannot see where to leave any (i assume email customer support)

There is plenty of ideas, techniques, tips, stories and samples in this program. In this way it is a good way to get started. It is also a good way to get into things.

What some people may not like is that it does cover a lot of sexual stuff. You may not be comfortable with some of the stuff (some would be weird for me), but the program does give a wide selection, there will be a few things here that you will want to try.

There is a good mix between theory and action here. You can understand why it works and there are some examples and guides on what to do next. Step by step.

This program isn’t going to fix all your problems. But there is a lot of tools in here to help a intimacy starved relationship.

Mr Recommendation (after having gone through the program)

Something important to note is that the Language Of Desire is mostly about meeting his needs. There is a section in the program about getting your needs met. But i think generally, The theory i think behind it is, if you make him happy, he will make you happy.

So, if your after something that is focused on making you happy then there could be two things.. Either this isn’t the program for you, or you will have to be patient and see what your man does after you follow the program.

This program will educate you to become a better partner, and lover. While reading and listening, there were at least a few points that I did not know, or had misconceptions about particular things that LOD helped me identify.

Overall i do recommend this program. I would think that after this program the quality of your relationship will improve.

I think it’s likely that you will take at least 2-3 things away from it and use them on your man. He will be happily surprised and going through the program and understanding what he wants will lead your relationship with him on a new trajectory.

You can get your copy here

And if you have any further questions about the program, you can ask them here and I will get back to you.

Thanks for reading my Language Of Desire Review.

“My Husband Wants a Divorce but Still Sleeps With Me…” – The PROS and CONS of Sex with Undecided Husbands

Husband sleeping while wife wonders what she should do when he has asked for divorce but still keeps sleeping with her

Husband sleeping while wife wonders what she should do when he has asked for divorce but still keeps sleeping with her

HAS YOUR HUSBAND ASKED YOU for a divorce but says that he will miss you and doesn’t want to give you up? Does he keep sending you mixed signals? Does he go as far as wanting to make love with you? You are frustrated and very confused.

Are you wondering ‘What does he really want?’ Because when you decide to divorce your spouse, aren’t you letting them go in every sense of the word?

Contrary to what you may think, many spouses have reported continuing having sex with their soon to be ex-spouses for a variety of reasons. After all, sex with your almost sex is familiar, probably comforting and the absurdity and the naughtiness makes it all too hot.

Why your soon to be ex-husband wants to have sex with you

  • Your husband could be finding sex with you familiar and convenient, even though you are separated. He knows what he is getting. He may not be ready to date, but he still gets his needs met in the comfort of your home.
  • Being intimate could be part of the grieving process for him: the funeral sex. Sex at this stage could really be a way for him to grieve, heal and say goodbye to you.
  • Again, it could be because of the looming divorce, things are much nicer and calmer. There is no fighting, and the pressure is off. You have gotten some me-time, you are taking care of yourself and you have probably started working out. You're looking much better than you have looked in a long time and he has noticed. He is attracted to you all over again.
  • It could also be that your husband is conflicted about the looming divorce. This can especially be the case when he sees how much you are hurting. Having sex with you could be his way of comforting you.
  • Your husband could be finding it hard to turn off his feelings for you. Just because he wants to divorce you does not necessarily mean that he no longer loves you or that he doesn’t wish that things were different. He is probably only dissatisfied with the marriage he has with you at present, but he does not know how to fix things. Feelings do not just disappear just because the marriage is in trouble.

My Husband Wants a Divorce but Still Sleeps With Me - Women thinking what to do, weighing up pros and cons

Sex: To have it or not

The little window of time between the separation and divorce is very significant; a lot of important things can happen. It is also when a definite decision will be made to either save or kill the marriage. Many times, you will be willing to do whatever you need to do to keep your family together: including having sex with your spouse.

This is completely honorable considering how much you desire to save your marriage. However, it is highly advisable that you should have sex with your eyes wide open (no pun intended).

Why you should make love with your separated husband

Many times, a marriage could be in trouble despite the fact that the spouses love each other. The love is there, but the ability to make a healthy and fulfilling marriage is not.

Your husband may therefore still have loving feelings towards you only that he does not know how to make your marriage more fulfilling. If you perceive this to the case, then, by all means, go ahead and sleep with your husband. During sex, oxytocin is produced. Oxytocin is also produced during touching and kissing with the highest amounts being released during orgasm.

Oxytocin is a powerful hormone that plays a significant role in bonding spouses together. Having sex may, therefore, set both of you on a journey back to closeness.

Of course, sex alone will not fix your marriage since there is something that is keeping the feelings between the two of you from being sufficient to make your husband stay. You must, therefore, work through whatever the issues might be:

  • A conflict that keeps cropping up
  • Lack of intimacy and therefore drifting apart
  • Communication breakdown
  • Money issues

As you work through your problems, sex will help your feelings to once again take the center stage, followed by the commitment to your marriage.

The big question is, is your husband honest when he says that he still loves you?

Reasons to not have sex with your separated husband

Do you want to save your marriage or just let go? Do you still love your partner? Is your marriage worth saving? Is there any chance of saving your marriage? Only you can answer these questions.

If you have no desire to save your marriage, having sex with your husband is probably a bad idea. Having sex with your husband will not only slow down your healing process but severely compromise your efforts to move on.

Having sex with your husband is also inadvisable if he is involved with another person sexually. Even if you saved this marriage, you would have given your husband the message that you are willing to be intimate with him even when you know he is concurrently having sexual relations with someone else. Is this the message you want to send?

Also, it is almost impossible to compete with an illicit lover. Illicit love is very exciting: the exaggeration of the emotions and the thrill of doing something forbidden. You will find it hard to match up to your husband’s illicit sex when you are emotionally drained by your impending divorce.

If your husband has truly decided to end your marriage, the bonding and closeness that sex brings might set you up for disappointment. If he insists on moving on, having sex with him will set you up for more misery by creating within yourself false hope.

Final thoughts

So, what do we say about having sex with your husband even after he has asked for you for a divorce? The decision is yours.

Just a small word of caution, though. Do not allow sex with your partner to go on for too long if he is not deciding to get back together with you. You will be stuck in ‘Limbo land,' and it won’t be good for you.

Also, bear in mind that there is no such thing as meaningless sex with someone whom you still have feelings for. And you can never call it casual when you are embroiled in the inherent misery of a looming divorce.

Many women have experienced the pain and confusion that inevitably accompanies sex with a soon to be ex. If it is clear you are headed for a divorce, put on the breaks.

Give yourself and your marriage some space. You have many decisions to make and negotiations to settle. You need to navigate the divorce with a clear mind. Love yourself enough to allow yourself time and distance to move on.

Thanks for reading. If you were asking ‘my husband wants a divorce but still sleeps with me' I hope this has gone some way to answering your questions.

If you have a question, query or comment, you can get in contact with me here

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His Secret Obsession Review – My Honest Opinion Including 3 PROS and 3 CONS

His Secret Obsession - Files downloaded on computer

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NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT MEN ARE DOING AND WHY, can leave you very frustrated…. Sometimes enough to give up on men altogether!

But when you do understand him, and you understand him enough to start influencing his behavior, for the betterment of you, him and your relationship… That’s where being in a relationship really comes into its own. And in comes the fun and joy of sharing your life with someone.

The His Secret Obsession program attempts to bridge women and men together, through education of his behavior and motivations.

His Secret Obsession - Files downloaded on computer
The His Secret Obsession files downloaded onto my computer

What is it in one sentence?

This is a guide to help women be in control of their relationships with men. By working with men's primal drives and instincts rather than against them.

His Secret Obsession - Digital copies only available
Although the images above are of physical products, his secret obsession is available through digital download only.

His Secret Obsession (HSO) Summary

The course is mostly text and audio versions of that text. There are 2 extras which are video.

Main course (&Bonuses):

  • Text – Yes
  • Audio – Yes
  • Video – No

Extras

  • Text – Yes
  • Audio – Yes
  • Video – Yes

Who is HSO for?

  • Who is it for
  • Married
  • Engaged
  • Dating
  • Single

This program is aimed at women who have a relationship with a man or at least have a potential suitor. However, single women will find the theory in this program very useful for future relationships.

What is it all about? (Overview)

Do you feel confused sometimes at the actions of men (or a particular man)?

Do you wonder why they seem to make the choices that they make and why do they care so much about some things but not about others?

If so, this program can really help. It covers men's motives for life and how as a woman, you can use them to your advantage, and to help make a better relationship

He as the ‘hero’, and you in control.

It breaks down his primary primal drive. The one that comes before all the rest. The fact that he needs to feel as though he is a hero…

This program shows you how to make him the hero, so you get what you want.

The best part is that the concept is simple and easy to understand. That’s the real beauty of it. It isn’t all basic exercises that a lot of programs like this can be, there is good quality new information available.

It’s straight to the point, with quite a few examples and analogies which help explain the different points.

For those people who really want to know those 12 words, (from the video) I won't reveal them here, but what they are and why they worked in that situation is fully explained in detail

There are also example phrases that can be used, but the author really teaches you how to fish, rather than just tossing you one. You may need to read or listen to the content a few times in my opinion, to get your head around it. You will also need to practice a little bit to get the hang of it.

 

The main program (His Secret Obsession) is broken up into two main parts

  1. How the Hero Instinct Works (The Theory)
  2. How to Use the Signals (The Practical)

The practical section in the program is still theory-laden, but does give enough to get you started on how to use the theory to help your relationships with your man or men in general

I think that this is a key pro, is that this program can help anyone who is having relationships with men. Whether it be personal relationships, or with men at work, in a social circle or whenever.

Part 2 has real-life applications and examples. These are generally the phenomena found in our psychology that is what helps form relationships. James (the author) identifies it and shows you how it works and how you can put it to work for yourself.

My thoughts of the program along with the pros and cons are towards the end of the article

What you will learn

  • How every man sees himself and how you fit into that vision
  • The three things every man craves, and how they explain all of his actions
  • The three phases of a man's life and how to tell if he is ready to settle down or not (and you can do if he says he isn’t when he actually could be)
  • How to know if your man is happy in your relationship and how to increase his participation in it
  • How to ‘train’ a man to get him to do more of what you want
  • How to spark a mans interest
  • Questions you can ask him that will have him lavishing more attention on you
  • How to open your man up to you for better communication and connection in your relationship
  • How to get him out of his comfort zone
  • How he wants you to ask him for assistance – it will help grow your relationship

What’s in it

His Secret Obsession PDF and Audio Program

A 184 page eBook

Modules:

  • The Secret to Unlocking the Hero Instinct
  • Part 1: How the Hero Instinct Works
  • Module 1: The Secret Longing of Every Man
  • Module 2: The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
  • Module 3: Make Him See the Light
  • Module 4: The Fascination Trigger
  • Module 5: Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
  • Module 6: How Your Desires Can Fascinate Him
  • Module 7: The Secret Currency of Happy Relationships
  • Module 8: Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
  • Module 9: How to become His Secret Obsession
  • Module 10: Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
  • Module 11: Three Things That Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)
  • Part II: How to Use the Signals
  • Module 12: “The Private Island” Signal
  • Module 13: The “X-ray Question”
  • Module 14: The Glimpse Phrase
  • Module 15: The Secret “Currency” Of Happy Relationships
  • Module 16: The “I Owe You” Signal
  • Module 17: The “Damsel in Distress” Signal
  • One More Thing…
  • Text Message Formulas – Extra Training

My thoughts of the program along with the pros and cons are towards the end of the article

Bonuses

Text Message Formulas

Overview:

This bonus is about how to generate interest when you're not around. How you can use texting along with your new knowledge about the male mind to get his attention (among other things).

My thoughts:

This isn’t just a massive list of texts you can use to start conversations. More like some sample text messages along with why they work. There’s also a simple formula you can follow to help when first starting. You may need some practice at this.

What’s in it:

  • Why Texting?
  • How “Curiosity Phrases” Can Keep Him Engaged
  • How to Create Curiosity Triggers When You’re Apart
  • Texting Your Life Story

7 Day Quick Start Action Guide

15 Pages

Overview:

The entire HSO course has a lot of information in it, it can seem like a whirlwind when you first start reading. This quick start guide will help you identify where you are at (there is a quiz in there to help) and give you some simple steps to focus. The ideas are to help build your confidence and show you some results.

My thoughts:

A simple to follow 7-day guide and a good way to start implementing the knowledge in the program.

My thoughts of the program along with the pros and cons are towards the end of the article

Extras

(The following extras are available at an extra cost to the program)

Endless Honeymoon

87 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Is your current relationship feeling a little… stale? Has the honeymoon well untruly warn off? Does your man seem to want to spend time doing other things like playing games, or time with friends?

If this sounds like your relationship then this 87-page guide will take your hand, and lead you through desire in your relationship. Included is how to find your common desires, and how to make him feel like achieving those desires is his new most important goal (or latest game).

My thoughts:

There are a few good points including how to keep him interested in moving the relationship forward. Worth a read or a listen. Will make you with some of the relevant research and studies were done in the area of happiness and relationships.

What's in it:

  • Introduction: The elements of an endless honeymoon
  • Section 1: Make your wish lists
  • Section 2: How to get him addicted to making you happy
  • Section 3: The secrets of the endless honeymoon
  • Section 4: Making honeymoon mentality with reality
  • Section 5: Shortcut tips and tricks to making an endless honeymoon
  • Section 6: Making it work in the current phase of your relationship

Love(Attraction) Triggers

88 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

This guide centers around 9 ideas/techniques that you can use to help encourage his strong feelings toward you in your relationship. At first, it reads like a guide for the first 3 months of a relationship but these techniques can be used at any time in a relationship.

There is research, that you may have heard of, along with some that you likely haven’t. And it is all related to relationships. There are also good examples to follow, and bad ones to avoid.

My thoughts:

Some theory on what happens when two people first meet with a focus on psychology and decoding body language. There are also some different ways to look at particular concepts around meeting someone, including flirting and developing confidence.

  • Chapter 1: Signal interest
  • Chapter 2: Flirt
  • Chapter 3: Get your hearts pumping
  • Chapter 4: Engage in intimate self-disclosure
  • Chapter 5: Condition through association
  • Chapter 6: Trigger a ‘Yes’ mindset
  • Chapter 7: Make him work for you
  • Chapter 8: Thrive
  • Chapter 9: Develop a special type of confidence

The Reverse Attraction Technique

18 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Want to know how to get a guy to open up to you like an old friend? This guide will show you how to manipulate your own interest level to flip a switch that pulls guys toward you like a magnet.

My thoughts:

This concise guide will show you how he will talk himself into having feelings for you. It’s a bit of reverse psychology that may seem a little counter-intuitive. But as a man, I can tell you that it works.

The Fairytale Method

16 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Do you have short relationships with men? Burning bright but not for very long? This short guide gives you a technique to create deeper emotional bonds and identify where you may be going wrong.

My thoughts:

A quick guide to inviting your guy to have a relationship where he feels comfortable to share his emotions and generally open up.

Instant Authentic Connection

61 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Want a shortcut to a deep connection with a man? This guide explains how we create deep connections and how to ‘create windows of opportunity’ to create a longer lasting and more authentic connection with your partner.

My thoughts:

More about creating emotional bonds. Might be a little far-fetched or a bit hard to follow for some. Think of it as a little more ‘advanced’.

What’s in it:

  • Section 1: The two mindsets that make the difference
  • Section 2: Shortcuts to an authentic connection
  • Section 3: Enemies of authenticity

Get a Guy to Commit: A Method for Increasing Attraction While Setting Standards for Your Relationship

13 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

This short guide is to help you identify, set and enforce boundaries with your guy. This is very important in a lasting relationship and shouldn’t be skipped. It talks about when the best time to have these conversations is, and how to get your man to open up about what he really wants also.

My thoughts:

This guide is dedicated to those single women or those who are in a new relationship mostly. A few rules to follow when setting rules and boundaries for a new relationship.

The Win-Win Negotiation System

7 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Is there a lot of silent treatment, frustration, and disagreement in your relationship? This system contains a quick to use guide based off of a principle created by one of the most prominent social psychologists.

My thoughts:

A good rule for any negotiation. Personally, I hadn’t heard of this before. Requires some time so it’s more for the larger aspects of a relationship or something that has caused some angst between you and your man.

The Curiosity Effect

84 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Curiosity is something that we are exposed to all the time. It’s a hint of what something is about but not the full story. This guide shows you how you can use this trait to your advantage, in attracting his interest.

What’s in it:

  • Section 1: The power of curiosity
  • Section 2: The simple (yet powerful) rules of curiosity
  • Section 3: The first curiosity pattern – story
  • Section 4: The second curiosity pattern – intermittent rewards through games
  • Section 5: Win his approach with curiosity
  • Section 6: Know when to be curious about him
  • Section 7: Reverse the number one threat to long-term relationships
  • Conclusion: Own his curiosity, you will own his heart

My thoughts:

This guide is not as simple to follow as some of the other ones. The concept is sound but you may need a few listens and some practice to understand it fully after you have read/listened to this. You may also feel like a marketer when you are trying it out, which doesn’t feel natural.

Emotional Imprint Method

47 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Relationships involve growth and change. So how do you keep on top of that and prioritize your relationship above all else? This guide will show you how to find things that work in your relationship, and use them to help create a stronger bond.

My thoughts:

This is a pretty common sense guide to keeping a relationship fun. I didn’t really get any new nuggets of information here, but it’s always good to be reminded of the basics whilst in your car on the way to work.

Unlock Your Charisma

41 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Think good looks are the only thing that will turn a man’s head? The truth is that to turn heads and have an aura, you need some charisma. This guide covers how others create charisma and how you can create some for yourself too.

My thoughts:

Some will find this a little woo-woo. If you're turned off by visualizing, affirmations and positive thinking then you might want to skip this.

Why Men Pull Away

13 Pages (& Audio)

Overview:

Ever wondered if there was a way to influence his desire? This guide covers why men pull away (it’s sometimes biological and sometimes psychological) and what you need to know to successfully deal with the situation.

My thoughts:

A good insight from this short guide. Worth a listen.

Awakening Your Feminine Intuition

10 modules (Approx 90 Pages & Audio)

Overview:

Learn how to tap into your intuition at a moment's notice when facing a difficult and unique relationship scenario. Plus, you will feel far more confident about your relationship decisions. You will also learn how to tap into a deep well of creativity and insights that will dazzle any man you set your sights on.

My Thoughts:

This bonus is about trying to tap into ‘intuition' which is mostly about a concept in cognitive science referred to in Daniel Kanehman's book ‘thinking fast and slow'. I think some might find it a little out there also. It wasn't for me.

 The Irresistable Vibe

Overview:

Discover a simple technique you can use to shine with an irresistible vibe. Learn how fulfilling life can be when you’re blessed with true and enthusiastic connections with people everywhere you go.

My thoughts:

By now the course is starting to get some familiarity to it. The idea behind this one is a little more abstract than some of the other content also.  So some may feel like it's a bit out there to begin with.

The PROS and CONS of His Secret Obsession

PROS

Insights

This isn’t simply doing exercises or dreaming about ‘the way you want things to be'.

This program provides new insights that show the reasons behind why men do what they do and explain their actions.

Once this is fully understood then it’s easy to in effect, become an artist with it. Be able to get what you want while giving him what he wants. A win-win.

(As a man, when I read this and listened to it I found myself nodding my head in agreement. Although I hadn’t thought of my life like this before, I found it to deliver some honest truths that I didn’t even realize of myself.)

Easy to Follow

The analogies, stories, and examples are simple to understand and make clear the point being made. There’s no second-guessing or what if’s. The program is clear.

CONS

No video

In the extras part, there is some video but the main part of the course doesn’t have a video section. If you find video the best way to learn (over text and audio) then there isn’t an option for you.

The author is a bit rude sometimes

Although the content is good, there are parts in this course which I felt treat the reader like a fool. In particular one section where ‘some readers just won’t get this part’… I didn’t like.

Price of extras

I thought the price of the extras was a little bit too expensive. They are good but they aren’t that good. (Note – if you want the extras for less money after you purchase the main program, you can reject them twice before being offered a more favorable price.)

What I think of HSO

Firstly I wasn't sure exactly what to expect after watching the video. If you are in the same boat as I was then here is what to expect

  1. There is plenty of theory in this. Plenty of ideas, research and new insights into your future relationships with men.
  2. The program is very polished and has been through the theory. It’s easy to follow and with the audio program, you can listen to it a few times to have it really sink into your head.
  3. I thought it was enjoyable, easy to follow and helpful. The best part though was the insight. Being able to classify men by one or two simple statements (as their schema) is important.
  4. The extras also compliment the main course which gives you a few more tools to use.

As a man, as soon as I started reading about ‘the hero instinct’ i could see it in my life. I thought about my actions and my priorities in life, and they do revolve around this drive. In a sentence, me trying to prove my worth, and me being drawn to things around the ideas of heroes and striving towards my goals.

I could also see how my wife was fitting into this. Where I felt like she was helping me, and where I felt there was friction.

After going through the program, I think that it’s important to get your head around this concept if you have or are planning to have a serious, long-term relationship with a man.

Understanding how he works, what his motivations are and what he needs to be happy (although he probably doesn't understand it himself) is a massive leap forward towards having better relationships with men.

This program is worth the price of a date, and I recommend it. You can get your copy here.

 

Thanks for reading my His Secret Obsession review. If you have any questions you'd like to ask me or anything else about the program, you can contact me here.